HAPPY MOTHER(S) DAY

In honor of Mother’s Day this year, I asked my stepdaughter’s biological mother, Jo Strettell, to join me in a discussion about the experience of raising the same beautiful daughter, Jasper.

While we have had many conversations over the past decade, Jo and I have never had the opportunity to reflect so thoroughly on our relationship as we did in this recorded ZOOM video. It was important for both of us to not shy away from analyzing the typically negative social stereotype of stepmom pitted against biological mother, but to embrace it. In doing so, we hope to encourage others, who may find themselves in the same position, to lead with love.

Jasper beautifully “moderated” the discussion and kept us on track with questions she personally designed; ones neither Jo nor I reviewed before the conversation. When you watch Jo’s answer to Jasper’s last question in the video, I’m certain you will understand why she is one of the world’s best mothers. Her honesty, depth, and careful consideration epitomizes life’s great affirmations — ones I know will determine a brilliant young woman in her daughter.

This is our story. A stepmom who eagerly tried to navigate the epic adventure called “motherhood,” an established Matriarch who consistently remained kind and inclusive, and the exceptional love that binds us as family.

I am forever grateful to you, Jo.  For having the courage to be honest and vulnerable with me throughout this conversation. For the patience, warmth, and integrity throughout the years. And for your generosity in inviting me to take part in your daughter’s life.

With my hand on my heart, you have truly taught me what it means to be a mother.

Kindest,

Kate

PS, (Below is the conversation between me, Jo, and Jasper!)

MOTHER(S) GIVE BACK

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